tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980515926340769054.post3857998930307540149..comments2024-02-09T14:26:00.025-05:00Comments on Pure Ness: Still Standing Still (as my heart aches)Vanessahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14768473078536830905noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980515926340769054.post-71576526647540371112011-07-20T20:39:13.209-04:002011-07-20T20:39:13.209-04:00Thank you, Jamie. I just continue to have bad expe...Thank you, Jamie. I just continue to have bad experiences with people in the medical community, especially when it comes to the "lady parts." Oh that all doctors had compassion, and you know, manners.<br />I'm really hoping that the next doctor will have a kind and gentle heart.Vanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14768473078536830905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980515926340769054.post-25235748542415393972011-07-19T21:08:40.897-04:002011-07-19T21:08:40.897-04:00I'm just so sorry.I'm just so sorry.Jamie @ *that* momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16025082430340823660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980515926340769054.post-24226923687846526302011-07-18T20:06:43.071-04:002011-07-18T20:06:43.071-04:00Kayce, thank you so much for the sympathy. It did ...Kayce, thank you so much for the sympathy. It did take a lot to make the decision for testing, and I'm still freaked out about it, but finally at the place where ttc is scarier.<br />Which is why I'm not giving up, TTCFoodie. But it's not going to be easy. This doctor was who my friends suggested. Any other doctor will require me to get a referral from my family doc (shouldn't be hard, but will take time), and then wait 3-4 months before they can get me in. Even then, there is no guarantee they won't say the same thing. It's simply the protocol put in place by the provincial health system. (although, yes this dr was a serious jerk today) I am going to try to find a doctor that is more flexible, but I just don't know if it's possible. There is a chance they could get in trouble if they don't follow the protocol. :( <br />Anyways - so not giving up yet. I will keep trying until I've exhausted my options. Today was a beating, and I'm going to need a minute, but I'll get back up. Having you all cheering me on helps.Vanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14768473078536830905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980515926340769054.post-4824488425965610642011-07-18T18:38:40.044-04:002011-07-18T18:38:40.044-04:00Hun, do some serious research in your area and fin...Hun, do some serious research in your area and find a more supportive doctor. Ask friends for referrals, try to find local infertility chat boards & ask those women who they see and if they like who they are seeing. Do not give up just because you got one stupid asshole OB/GYN. (Sorry, there is no better word to describe that guy.)Carrie Robinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01563560526526336292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4980515926340769054.post-64991996519089739402011-07-18T17:45:13.559-04:002011-07-18T17:45:13.559-04:00Oh sweetheart, I am so sorry. This is the reason I...Oh sweetheart, I am so sorry. This is the reason I haven't gone in for anything :( Why are they such jerks that don't think you have feelings?? Losing babies sucks, and it takes even more courage to even want to get pregnant than it does to go in for testing, and going in for testing takes a lot!!<br /><br />I am so so so sorry sweetheart. (((hugs)))Kaycehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04656467879424134893noreply@blogger.com